Running my own retail business means my days are packed. There’s always another shipment to check, another email to answer, another list to cross off. It would be easy to tell myself I’m too busy to take time out of my workday to volunteer at my kids' school.
But every time I step into their classroom or help at a field trip, I’m reminded why I can't afford not to.
When I show up—whether it’s reading to the class, helping with a craft project, or chaperoning a field trip—I'm sending my kids a message louder than any words: You matter more.
And it's not just about my own children.
When parents step into schools, they light up the room for every child. Some kids may not have a parent who can be there due to work, distance, or life circumstances. Seeing a friendly face who cares—even if it's not "their" parent—can mean everything. It tells them: You're seen. You're important. You are worth someone's time.
I’ve realized something over the years: kids don't remember if your floors were spotless, if your inbox was cleared, or if your business had a record-breaking day. They remember who showed up. They remember the time you brought cupcakes to the class party or helped them pin a nametag on their field trip shirt.
These moments weave themselves into the fabric of who they become. They build self-worth, security, and trust. And when our children grow up, they look back on a lifetime of small moments and realize they were never small at all.
Even as a busy mom and business owner, I’m learning that presence is the most powerful thing we can offer.
So yes, the work will still be there when I get back to the boutique. But when I choose to volunteer—to be there when it counts—I'm building something far more important than any business could ever measure: memories, confidence, and connection.
And that's the kind of legacy I want to leave behind.
If you're hesitating because life feels overwhelming (believe me, I get it), remember this: it doesn't have to be big or perfect. One hour. One story read. One tray of cookies. It all counts.
It all matters more than we know.